The life we live
currently is designed by our minds. Whether you accept it or not, everything you
do or did is because of your mind. Our minds control our whole life. Do you
often feel that your life is pathetic? Do you worry about always running out of
money? It means that you have fed wrong instructions to your mind and it is
leading you in the wrong way.
Our mind is our
asset. It is our responsibility to protect it. It is capable of yielding huge
benefits to your life. The only thing you have to do is feed the right
information. Read and implement the following ideas to change your mind which
in turn will change your life.
1. Positive self-talk
Our
poor minds are imprisoned because of all the negativity we put into it. We
become our worst criticizer. Self-talk has a lot to do with how your life is. If
you keep on saying yourself that 'You are not capable', 'You are ugly', 'You
are not good', then your life will become a replica of it. Not only that, but self-talk is also an emotion that creates a feeling of despair. If you keep on
talking bad about yourself you will always feel low with life. You will miss
the life that is waiting beyond the self-hatred.
No
matter who you have in life, no matter who loves you the most, they will never
become you. You got your own life to live. You are your greatest power. You are
your greatest supporter. When you start putting all your energy to be good to
yourself first, when you emphasize feeding only the right thing about you to
your mind, I bet you that your life will be taken to a next level.
Start
embracing your imperfections, love you for who you are. Just start by adding
one positive affirmation about yourself. Love the life you have created around
you, even if it's messy.
2. Know your worth
Understand
that you are worthy of all the things. If you put in the mind and work, you are
capable of becoming whatever you aim to be. Don't give priority to any negative
influence in your life. People might shout that 'You are incapable', but
remember that you are not put on this beautiful world to entertain their ego.
You have your own life that is waiting to celebrate. You have no need to prove
others. The only person you have to prove yourself is YOU.
No
one ever in this world is unworthy. No race, color, caste, and creed can be a
threshold for your worth. Understand, you have the universe within you!
3. Change the language you use
The day to day language you use can
also affect your mindset. The way you articulate things can be a threat to your
life. According to NLP (Neuro-linguistic program), our brain does not decode
'NO'. For example, if you say ' I am never going to be late again', it will
decode as 'I am going to be late again'. So, always be cautious of the language
you are using. Instead of saying 'I will never be late' you can say ' I will be
early hereafter'. Try to include positive sentences in whatever you say. Your
mind will increase the level of positivity it sees around. As a result of this,
your whole life will elevate to the next level.
4. Step out of your comfort zone
If you are
constantly worrying about why life is so unfair to you, it means that you are
stuck. People who always thrive beyond the comfort zone never feel stuck. They
know that there are numerous possibilities to change the lifestyle they live
and so they do.
When you come out of
your safe zone, you will have so many experiences. After all, experiences are
what shapes everyone's life. When you experience things out of your zone,
you will have a lot of life lessons that might change your level of thinking. It
is always better to work out of your comfort zone because you will never know
what is lying beyond.
5. Ask questions to increase
perspective
When you ask
questions, your brain automatically becomes like google and goes in search of
answers. When you dig in the answer, you might find a different perspective of
the truth. It is always good to ask questions because naturally most of the
humans think that the theory they believe is the best, this is why there have
been wars an crimes. Right from religion to politics, people never give a
second thought of what other person thinks.
When you stand in
the shoes of others and look the world through their eyes you will see a
different one than yours. So, when you have that courtesy to understand the
perspective of others you will be living a life of intelligence and peace.
6. Stop being judgmental
Do you know that the
concept of 'language' was formed because we humans badly wanted to gossip? Yes,
we are naturally judgmental. But, that does so many harms to our inner peace
and also to the environment we live in. If you are judgmental, you will not be
able to see the good in the other person. Every one of us has a positive side
and a negative side. Being judgmental will only focus on the not so good side
of a person. Because of this, we might miss the opportunity of learning good
things from a person. If you want to lift your life, then you must thrive in
search of opportunities to learn. When you have that outlook on life, you will
never be judgmental ever.
7. Be more empathetic and
grateful
As said earlier, it
is always good to have another perspective, it will make you empathetic. When
you are empathetic, you understand others. You know that it is good for every
person that seems bad. As an outcome, you will lead a very peaceful and calm
life. You will think before you talk and you will also be able to control your
humiliation.
Being grateful is
an important way to attain happiness in life. Start your day by counting the
blessings instead of scrolling your mobile phone. When you know that you are
blessed, you will be happier. You will be content with your life.
Contentment is nothing but happiness.
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