7 reasons why being single is better than a bad relationship
Most of the world
believes that being in a relationship will make you whole; having a life
partner and successful marriage as the ultimate goal of life. But, what is the
point of becoming whole when being in a bad relationship?
Your life's goal is
not to end up in a marriage but to live happily. Studies say that being single
can be more fulfilling than being in a bad relationship. A wrong person ruins
your life. It is ok to feel lost after a breakup but you have to get back as soon
as possible because being single will have a lot more adventures than in a
boring/bad relationship.
1. You will start enjoying your
own company
Being single doesn't mean that
you are lonely. Understand that there is a huge difference between being alone
and lonely. Sometimes, being alone can be very calming and relaxing. You will
have opportunities to explore yourself. You will do things that you feel like
doing and then you will start enjoying being alone.
Once you fall in love with
yourself it will be very easy to be alone. Perhaps, you will want to be alone
because you might have realized you have no better company than yourself.
2. Being single will help you
evaluate what you want and don't want in a relationship
You probably don’t want a life
partner like your ex. You will have time to evaluate what you like and what you
do not like. Being single also gives the chance of dating others. By this, you
can conclude what you want from your next partner and exclude what you do not
want.
3. Freedom is everywhere
One of the most awesome benefits of
being single is the freedom. You no need to check in someone all the time and
always remind them of where you are, whom you are with and so on.
Now, you can have your own schedule,
eat when you want. The whole bed is yours. You can hang out with your friends
whenever you feel like. Being single gives control over your life. Freedom
enables you to love yourself even more. It is really important to love yourself
without the validation of any man/woman in your life.
Relationship coach Lisa Schmidt says
that "Nothing is sexier than a person who can handle their life"
Being independent and taking care of your own life will also attract new
partners top your life.
4. You no need to regret
You might want to badly hang out with
your friends one night since one of your friends is going abroad and you are
giving him a sendoff party. But, your partner does not want you to stay late
night at parties. In such situations sometimes people tend to lie to their
partners just to go out and have fun.
Being single and free requires no
one's permission to do what you want to do. You can do whatever you want
without regret or guilt.
5. You have your self-esteem
The wrong person will always hurt, disappoint or trigger your anger. If you always
feel undervalued or not enough it means you are in a bad relationship. Yes, you
have to give up your ego in a relationship to have a long-lasting one. But, if
you know that you are in a bad relationship that is sucking the happiness out of
you, you have to keep up your ego and self-esteem. It may seem selfish but it
is required to grow and be happy.
6. You can put yourself first
After coming out of a toxic
relationship, you have plenty of time for yourself. You can pursue whatever you
want. You can hit the gym regularly, take up a second job, make time for your
passion and lot more. You have time to put yourself a priority. In that way,
you can have time to explore your abilities.
7. Relationships don’t guarantee
happiness
Getting
committed in a relationship will not make you happy. If you are searching for a
partner just to make you feel happy. Please quit it right away. Because no one
can guarantee happiness to you. The one person who can make you feel happy and
good is you. Until and unless you are happy and contented with yourself no
relationship/partner will make you feel happy. You have to be your whole and
love yourself more.
Happy
single life!
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